Safe stopping distance

When I was taught to drive in England, my teacher taught me how to drive safely by keeping space between the cars in front and behind. “If you’re in traffic and the car behind is impatient and starts driving really close behind your car, you might be tempted to speed up to get further away from them,” he said. “In fact, that’s the worst thing to do, because it brings you closer to the car in front, and if the car in front stops suddenly, you’ll have to stop suddenly too, and then impatient car behind you will crash into the back of you. The most important thing is to have plenty of space in front of you, so if the car in front does something unexpected, you’ll have plenty of time to react.”

The key word here is unexpected. In England, almost all drivers do what is expected of them. If there’s a red light, they stop. If they’re in a right-turn only lane, they turn right. If they’re driving down a road at 30 mph with lots of cars around them, they’ll keep going straight, slow down gradually, or indicate a change of direction. Of course, sometimes someone won’t do these things, and that’s the unexpected factor. But you have to have an expected way of behaving before you can have anything unexpected…

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Mother’s hand is waiting for yours to hold

Chinese people have a saying: “尊老爱幼,” which means, “Respect the old and cherish the young.” These traditional attitudes and priorities are part of the reason I really love Chinese culture, but many such ideas are being eroded in modern society, often by the influence of western culture.

The story below was in my reading textbook this week, and it really touched a nerve with me. I’ve included the whole story, and translated it into English as best as I’m able.

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Hutongs and Hotels

On Friday I took my day off class to walk around inner Beijing. I got to walk around the financial district near Xidan, the hutongs from Qianmen Xiheyan to Yangmeizhu Xiejie, the Dashilan commercial district, the surroundings of Tiananmen Square, the old legation district around Zhengyi Road, the shopping centres of Wangfujing and the touristified hutongs behind them. It was been a lovely day, although my feet were aching by the end of it…

I was struck by all the different parts of Beijng. There are the giant gleaming office blocks in the financial district, showing off their wealth and style and space. There are the run-down apartment blocks where people are happy to live but the landlords are not interested in keeping up appearances. There are new mansions for the new upper-middle classes with giant gates to keep out the riff-raff. Continue reading “Hutongs and Hotels”